I am currently facilitating a women's Bible study called Beautiful Mess, which is a follow up to the (fantastic) movie "Mom's Night Out". This study is speaking to my heart and causing me to really dissect my actions and attitudes and make sure that they are pleasing to the Lord. The study is using the thing (people) that tends to get to me the most--my babies! How do they see their mama responding to life's crazy situations that turn my world (most of the time temporarily) upside-down?!
This week already (and it's only Tuesday! Yikes) I have had to look at myself and ask the question, "Is God pleased with my attitude today?" "Does he approve of the way I am CHOOSING to respond to this situation?" Let me be honest, I found that the answer was NO!
Last week we discovered that our responses and our attitudes are our choice. We can choose to respond (behave) differently. Does becoming angered and quick tongued get us anywhere or does it cause us to become ineffective for the Lord? When we allow the things of this world to influence our decision to respond negatively, we are giving Satan a foot-hold. WE are allowing him to keep us from doing good for the Lord. We can not (and will not) be used to bring glory to the Father as long as we are allowing Satan to take hold of our lives. *I am preaching to myself here!!
Does this mean that situations should be avoided all together? Not at all! Sometimes situations that arise need to be addressed in order for changes to be made. It is all in how they are handled that makes the difference. This is sometimes (more times than not) where I fail. Well thought out, planned out and prayed over responses should be formulated and taken to the appropriate people. If you have had a disagreement with your spouse, just after the "discussion"is probably is not the best time to try to come to resolve. It may be best to take 30 minutes, 2 hours or even a day to collect your thoughts. Sometimes our children can bring about "beautiful messes" that cause us to lose our cool. Should we blow off the handle, scream and yell to get their attention? That is probably not the most effective way to handle their tender hearts. After all, they may have simply been expanding their imagination, creating you a masterpiece or teaching their sibling how to do something "really awesome!" Take a moment, catch a breath and realize that these moments are fleeting and that they are flying by so quickly. There may come a day when you are begging for some noise in the house and you long for the mess to clean.
My attitude is my choice. My actions are my choice. Today, I am going to choose to be polite and respectful of others--until someone makes me mad (JUST KIDDING!). In Kindergarten we learned to play well with others and as an adult I am learning that MY attitude has a lot to do with that. People will not want to befriend or just be around me if my attitude stinks! We need people. We need relationships. Love those who are not lovable (let's face it, you aren't every day either) and be patient when life calls for it. Life is life. It brings ups and downs. We must learn to ride the ride with God's grace and do it with a smile on our face (even when we don't want to)!
When Satan tries to crowd your mind, just remember...
"Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me--practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you."
Philippians 4:8-9
Blessings,
Heather
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Give'Em Jesus!
Have you ever driven past that stranger on the street, the one holding the sign asking for money or food, and wondered what happened once you passed them by? Well, I have and from the conversations taking place in my Sunday school class, I am not alone.
My heart is a giving heart. I want to meet the needs of others, but I must admit, my current working position has left me a bit tainted. I often question if they really need the assistance or not. Shame on me, right?! Is it my place to say if they need it or not or is it simply my duty to be the hands and feet of Jesus and help when asked (of course the second choice is the correct choice!)?
Wanting to help is not the problem, it is knowing how to best assist the people that are in need of the help that I struggle with. Is money the answer? Should I just go buy a hot meal and deliver to them? What else can be done to make a difference in the lives of God's children who He loves just as much as He loves me?! Well, my friends, it all became quite clear sitting in Sunday school two weeks ago as we were diving into our lesson. We can give them Jesus!
We may not have money to give (and to be honest, that may not be the solution to their problem), we may not even have the availability to run to McDonald's for a burger and fries, but we can give them the word of God and a prayer. We can plant the seed of salvation if they are not believers and for those who are, we can help them see the hope that lies ahead. Hearing the words from the Lord may be just what they are looking for!
This all sounds great--right?! Now, how do we put this plan to action?
Be proactive! Prepare yourself (and your vehicle) with tracts that are filled with the words that they need to hear! They are small and can fit in your glove compartment and can easily be handed through your car window. A guy in our class even mentioned having Bibles in the car that can be handed out easily.
Stop and say a prayer! Prayer can mean a world of difference in the life of another. I know as a woman we tend to be a little scared to stop, so this can be something that is done as we are passing by. I find myself praying that the Lord can send someone that is equipped to stop and assist in ways that I can't. I ask for peace for the individual and that somehow their needs may be met.
No one ever said that being a Christian would be easy, but God gives us strength. No one ever said that sharing the Gospel would be easy, but God will give us the words to be spoken. No one ever said that it would be easy to minister to others, but God grants the desire and provides a way.
I encourage you to pray for an opportunity to serve someone today. When God answers your prayer, act!
Food for thought:
Blessings,
Heather
My heart is a giving heart. I want to meet the needs of others, but I must admit, my current working position has left me a bit tainted. I often question if they really need the assistance or not. Shame on me, right?! Is it my place to say if they need it or not or is it simply my duty to be the hands and feet of Jesus and help when asked (of course the second choice is the correct choice!)?
Wanting to help is not the problem, it is knowing how to best assist the people that are in need of the help that I struggle with. Is money the answer? Should I just go buy a hot meal and deliver to them? What else can be done to make a difference in the lives of God's children who He loves just as much as He loves me?! Well, my friends, it all became quite clear sitting in Sunday school two weeks ago as we were diving into our lesson. We can give them Jesus!
We may not have money to give (and to be honest, that may not be the solution to their problem), we may not even have the availability to run to McDonald's for a burger and fries, but we can give them the word of God and a prayer. We can plant the seed of salvation if they are not believers and for those who are, we can help them see the hope that lies ahead. Hearing the words from the Lord may be just what they are looking for!
This all sounds great--right?! Now, how do we put this plan to action?
Be proactive! Prepare yourself (and your vehicle) with tracts that are filled with the words that they need to hear! They are small and can fit in your glove compartment and can easily be handed through your car window. A guy in our class even mentioned having Bibles in the car that can be handed out easily.
Stop and say a prayer! Prayer can mean a world of difference in the life of another. I know as a woman we tend to be a little scared to stop, so this can be something that is done as we are passing by. I find myself praying that the Lord can send someone that is equipped to stop and assist in ways that I can't. I ask for peace for the individual and that somehow their needs may be met.
No one ever said that being a Christian would be easy, but God gives us strength. No one ever said that sharing the Gospel would be easy, but God will give us the words to be spoken. No one ever said that it would be easy to minister to others, but God grants the desire and provides a way.
I encourage you to pray for an opportunity to serve someone today. When God answers your prayer, act!
Food for thought:
"As every man has received a gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God." 1 Peter 4:10
Blessings,
Heather
Friday, September 5, 2014
Yep, Mama has LOST IT!
Have you ever lost your cool? Please tell me you have so that I don't feel alone!
Let me just give you a snip-it into my morning this glorious AM so that you can see just how Satan was at work in the Talley home!
My alarm went off and surprisingly I actually got up and going as I should, seeing how I was to deliver both children this morning since I did not have the assistance of my wonderful husband. I took my shower, put on my face and dressed myself before arousing the children. I fixed breakfast for Evan and Emie's bottle with Oatmeal and prepared to say our "Good Mornings!" So far things seem rather uneventful.
Sleepy-eyed Evan finds his way to the recliner, mini chicken biscuits in hand and his cup of milk, ready for his favorite cartoons to start his day. Emie is settled back by this time, bottle in hand, enjoying her morning yummys too.
10 minutes in, Evan has not taken one bite--not ONE bite!
25 MINUTES LATER, Evan has ONLY managed to down 1/2 of ONE mini chicken biscuit and then looks at me like I am crazy because I am asking him why more of it has not been eaten! I take it from him and put it on the stove and tell him to get dressed, now.
I walk through about 5 minutes later and I will let you take a wild guess---he is NOT dressed! How long does it REALLY take to dress a 6 year old body? For the LOVE!!
The TV is turned off (I know, it probably never should have been on in the first place, but give a Mama a break) and I have now in a raised tone, told him once again to GET. DRESSED!
I whisk Emie to her room for a clean diaper and clothes for the day, all the while reminding Evan of what all he needs to be doing. "Brush your teeth, Evan, use the bathroom, let's brush your hair and put on your socks and shoes." Really, it's not like we don't do the same chores morning after morning! I am exhausted by this point and my day is just beginning. I must interject here that I did wake in a good mood, enjoyed my quiet shower and my 10 minutes of face preparations.
Back to my sweet Evan. He is now brushing his teeth and I have moved on to finishing my hair. I zip through the kitchen only to catch a glimpse of him darting into his room where he is trying to put the shorts that he wore yesterday back on and his shorts that I had ironed that morning are in his dirt clothes bin. I just about come apart! When I ask, it seems as though there was a mishap with our aim in the bathroom! OH. MY. GOODNESS! Now I HAVE come apart! We don't have time for this. I am behaving in a way that is NOT the way Christ intended, Evan is crying and I am in tears! What a way to start our Friday!
Apologies were given and we finally were out the door. Did I mention that in the middle of all of this Emie managed to get her hand popped and have a complete come apart. So, we all shed some tears and had a doozy of a morning!
I feel as though I owe my mother a HUGE apology for the way I behaved in the mornings when she was working hard to get me up and going! Evan is his mother's child!
Does this sound like a morning in your home? Hopefully it is not a typical morning! I can't help but think if God must feel like this sometimes. He is constantly laying on our hearts and minds the things that He desires for us to do and we just lolly-gag to the point where so much time is wasted and we (and maybe even he) end up feeling defeated. Just as I was not constantly on Evan's case "just because", there is always a task at hand-something that must be done for a specific purpose. The Lord has plans for us. Are we too busy (or being too lazy) to see His plan through?
Back to my sweet Evan this morning. I did send his teacher a message to check on him and he was doing great. Maybe the repercussions of this morning have only stuck in my mind. This Mama gig can be difficult sometimes, but I wouldn't trade it for all of the world! Maybe God feels the same about me sometimes. Being my heavenly Father can be difficult, but in the long run, I know He wouldn't change a thing!
Scripture for thought on standing firm in the Lord when Satan tries to ruin the day:
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness." Ephesians 6:10-18
Blessings,
Heather
Let me just give you a snip-it into my morning this glorious AM so that you can see just how Satan was at work in the Talley home!
My alarm went off and surprisingly I actually got up and going as I should, seeing how I was to deliver both children this morning since I did not have the assistance of my wonderful husband. I took my shower, put on my face and dressed myself before arousing the children. I fixed breakfast for Evan and Emie's bottle with Oatmeal and prepared to say our "Good Mornings!" So far things seem rather uneventful.
Sleepy-eyed Evan finds his way to the recliner, mini chicken biscuits in hand and his cup of milk, ready for his favorite cartoons to start his day. Emie is settled back by this time, bottle in hand, enjoying her morning yummys too.
10 minutes in, Evan has not taken one bite--not ONE bite!
25 MINUTES LATER, Evan has ONLY managed to down 1/2 of ONE mini chicken biscuit and then looks at me like I am crazy because I am asking him why more of it has not been eaten! I take it from him and put it on the stove and tell him to get dressed, now.
I walk through about 5 minutes later and I will let you take a wild guess---he is NOT dressed! How long does it REALLY take to dress a 6 year old body? For the LOVE!!
The TV is turned off (I know, it probably never should have been on in the first place, but give a Mama a break) and I have now in a raised tone, told him once again to GET. DRESSED!
I whisk Emie to her room for a clean diaper and clothes for the day, all the while reminding Evan of what all he needs to be doing. "Brush your teeth, Evan, use the bathroom, let's brush your hair and put on your socks and shoes." Really, it's not like we don't do the same chores morning after morning! I am exhausted by this point and my day is just beginning. I must interject here that I did wake in a good mood, enjoyed my quiet shower and my 10 minutes of face preparations.
Back to my sweet Evan. He is now brushing his teeth and I have moved on to finishing my hair. I zip through the kitchen only to catch a glimpse of him darting into his room where he is trying to put the shorts that he wore yesterday back on and his shorts that I had ironed that morning are in his dirt clothes bin. I just about come apart! When I ask, it seems as though there was a mishap with our aim in the bathroom! OH. MY. GOODNESS! Now I HAVE come apart! We don't have time for this. I am behaving in a way that is NOT the way Christ intended, Evan is crying and I am in tears! What a way to start our Friday!
Apologies were given and we finally were out the door. Did I mention that in the middle of all of this Emie managed to get her hand popped and have a complete come apart. So, we all shed some tears and had a doozy of a morning!
I feel as though I owe my mother a HUGE apology for the way I behaved in the mornings when she was working hard to get me up and going! Evan is his mother's child!
Does this sound like a morning in your home? Hopefully it is not a typical morning! I can't help but think if God must feel like this sometimes. He is constantly laying on our hearts and minds the things that He desires for us to do and we just lolly-gag to the point where so much time is wasted and we (and maybe even he) end up feeling defeated. Just as I was not constantly on Evan's case "just because", there is always a task at hand-something that must be done for a specific purpose. The Lord has plans for us. Are we too busy (or being too lazy) to see His plan through?
Back to my sweet Evan this morning. I did send his teacher a message to check on him and he was doing great. Maybe the repercussions of this morning have only stuck in my mind. This Mama gig can be difficult sometimes, but I wouldn't trade it for all of the world! Maybe God feels the same about me sometimes. Being my heavenly Father can be difficult, but in the long run, I know He wouldn't change a thing!
Scripture for thought on standing firm in the Lord when Satan tries to ruin the day:
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness." Ephesians 6:10-18
Blessings,
Heather
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
All the while...
I tend to be the kind of person who becomes totally wrapped up in whatever the task may be before me. Lately, it seems as though I can't get one foot in front of the other, keep my balance and stay focused on the task at hand. My mind is consumed with things that should be done, could have been done and things that have to be done, all the while, things change.
Change. Such a dreaded word at times, but is it really all that bad? Think about it. Before you are married, you are single, right? Then, you meet someone and something changes. You fall in love and your life is never the same again. Move ahead a few years, you marry and it is just the two of you, you decide to grow your little family, so you add a little one and once again something changes. These tend to be the kind of changes that bring us laughter and joy! These are the easy changes to handle! We all know too well that life is not all about easy changes.
The storm clouds come and dark days dawn. Friends and family members hurt and pain rips our hearts into pieces. Friendships fail and loved ones die. That is the reality of this thing we call life. These changes are not always easy to accept, but they are necessary. They aide in our growth and walk with the Lord.
Just this past week, our family lost a dear friend. Mrs. Jackie fought and kicked cancer, but her body succumbed to a heart attack. When the phone call came, my heart was broken. The tears fell and the hurt was heavy. Her family (and friends who loved her so) was (is) about to experience change as never before.
Just a little over a week ago, a friend from home was involved in a very serious auto mobile accident. Fortunately, the Lord had his hand on Jessica and her friend, their lives were spared, however physical limitations are being challenged. They will face change for a while like they have never known.
James and I have friends whose marriages have stood terrible tests. Some were able to rise from the ashes and others have not. With this, brings change--not only for the couple, but for the entire family unit.
In each situation, although they are different in their own respect, one thing remains the same. The love the Father has for every life touched by change. He is there to hold us up when we feel we have no strength. Provide comfort when all we feel is pain. Heal the brokenness when it all seems hopeless. Though physically he is not here to hold a hand or be a shoulder to lean on, he provides those for us who can fill the gaps. Our spouses, our parents, siblings and friends. Maybe you personally are not facing a trial at this time, be thankful. Maybe He has placed you in the life of someone who needs you to be there to listen, care for and love.
If currently you are facing change, embrace the opportunity to grow. Lean on Jesus like never before and know that you are loved.
"I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Galatians 2:20
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:6-7
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, and today and forever." Hebrews 13:8
Blessings,
Heather
Change. Such a dreaded word at times, but is it really all that bad? Think about it. Before you are married, you are single, right? Then, you meet someone and something changes. You fall in love and your life is never the same again. Move ahead a few years, you marry and it is just the two of you, you decide to grow your little family, so you add a little one and once again something changes. These tend to be the kind of changes that bring us laughter and joy! These are the easy changes to handle! We all know too well that life is not all about easy changes.
The storm clouds come and dark days dawn. Friends and family members hurt and pain rips our hearts into pieces. Friendships fail and loved ones die. That is the reality of this thing we call life. These changes are not always easy to accept, but they are necessary. They aide in our growth and walk with the Lord.
Just this past week, our family lost a dear friend. Mrs. Jackie fought and kicked cancer, but her body succumbed to a heart attack. When the phone call came, my heart was broken. The tears fell and the hurt was heavy. Her family (and friends who loved her so) was (is) about to experience change as never before.
Just a little over a week ago, a friend from home was involved in a very serious auto mobile accident. Fortunately, the Lord had his hand on Jessica and her friend, their lives were spared, however physical limitations are being challenged. They will face change for a while like they have never known.
James and I have friends whose marriages have stood terrible tests. Some were able to rise from the ashes and others have not. With this, brings change--not only for the couple, but for the entire family unit.
In each situation, although they are different in their own respect, one thing remains the same. The love the Father has for every life touched by change. He is there to hold us up when we feel we have no strength. Provide comfort when all we feel is pain. Heal the brokenness when it all seems hopeless. Though physically he is not here to hold a hand or be a shoulder to lean on, he provides those for us who can fill the gaps. Our spouses, our parents, siblings and friends. Maybe you personally are not facing a trial at this time, be thankful. Maybe He has placed you in the life of someone who needs you to be there to listen, care for and love.
If currently you are facing change, embrace the opportunity to grow. Lean on Jesus like never before and know that you are loved.
"I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Galatians 2:20
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:6-7
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, and today and forever." Hebrews 13:8
Blessings,
Heather
Tuesday, July 29, 2014
Things that make you go hmmm....
Ever heard something that makes you think so hard that you literally go, "hmmmmmmm"? Over the past several years, there have been several comments made from time to time by either friends or acquaintances that have really made me stop in my tracks and think. Think really hard!
My friend Laura and I communicate almost daily-either verbally or through text. She is one of my go to gals! We work together, shop together, eat out together, and attend the same Sunday school class with our hubbys. This past week she mentioned that she has said (to another family member) on numerous occasions that her marriage comes before her boys. Now, she has said this to me many times before, but this time, it really made me stop and think. Think so much that I actually asked the hubs this morning, as he was tying his tie, what he thought that statement meant.
What does this statement really mean? More than that, what does it me to me and what does it mean for the sake of my (healthy) marriage? I am so thankful to have Laura in my life. She brings things to light for me and we seem to really balance each other out. Her husband would probably tell you that I, on the other hand, can be a negative influence as I totally indulge her love for shopping! Hey, that's what girlfriends are for, right?!
Back to topic. What does it mean to truly put James (my hubs) above all else? Even before the children who I carried for 9 months and sent my body into a whirlwind to deliver safely? Those same children who I have cradled in the middle of night and worn (still wear, as Emie is only 9 mo) t-shirts covered in their less than appealing bodily fluids (gross, I know!)? How do you even do that? They NEED me!! They have needs that ONLY I can take care of! Sound familiar?!
Well, that is where I have been shown that I am wrong! What my children NEED is to see their daddy and me loving and serving the Lord, loving one another, and being available to care for them. There are times when James and I WILL need to take a break and go to dinner--just the two of us. And that is ok! We should not feel guilty about loving each other and wanting to reconnect and re-energize our marriage. The more and more that we allow things (in some cases people) to come between us, when we diminish our ability to be able to communicate and spend time together, the worse off we will be. The worse off our marriage will be. The worse off our family will be. We must take time to love each other. It is so easy to be so busy that we forget to ask "how was your day?" or give that kiss at the end of the night, but we can't! I wouldn't have my beautiful babies if it were not for James and I can't be guilty of forgetting that!
So, in closing, just as my children need me, so does my husband! I can't a Godly mother to them if I am not being a Godly wife to their daddy! I hope this initial question made you stop and go "hmmmmm"! Thanks Laura for being my friend and for making me stop and think outside MY box! I love ya!
Blessings,
Heather
My friend Laura and I communicate almost daily-either verbally or through text. She is one of my go to gals! We work together, shop together, eat out together, and attend the same Sunday school class with our hubbys. This past week she mentioned that she has said (to another family member) on numerous occasions that her marriage comes before her boys. Now, she has said this to me many times before, but this time, it really made me stop and think. Think so much that I actually asked the hubs this morning, as he was tying his tie, what he thought that statement meant.
What does this statement really mean? More than that, what does it me to me and what does it mean for the sake of my (healthy) marriage? I am so thankful to have Laura in my life. She brings things to light for me and we seem to really balance each other out. Her husband would probably tell you that I, on the other hand, can be a negative influence as I totally indulge her love for shopping! Hey, that's what girlfriends are for, right?!
Back to topic. What does it mean to truly put James (my hubs) above all else? Even before the children who I carried for 9 months and sent my body into a whirlwind to deliver safely? Those same children who I have cradled in the middle of night and worn (still wear, as Emie is only 9 mo) t-shirts covered in their less than appealing bodily fluids (gross, I know!)? How do you even do that? They NEED me!! They have needs that ONLY I can take care of! Sound familiar?!
Well, that is where I have been shown that I am wrong! What my children NEED is to see their daddy and me loving and serving the Lord, loving one another, and being available to care for them. There are times when James and I WILL need to take a break and go to dinner--just the two of us. And that is ok! We should not feel guilty about loving each other and wanting to reconnect and re-energize our marriage. The more and more that we allow things (in some cases people) to come between us, when we diminish our ability to be able to communicate and spend time together, the worse off we will be. The worse off our marriage will be. The worse off our family will be. We must take time to love each other. It is so easy to be so busy that we forget to ask "how was your day?" or give that kiss at the end of the night, but we can't! I wouldn't have my beautiful babies if it were not for James and I can't be guilty of forgetting that!
So, in closing, just as my children need me, so does my husband! I can't a Godly mother to them if I am not being a Godly wife to their daddy! I hope this initial question made you stop and go "hmmmmm"! Thanks Laura for being my friend and for making me stop and think outside MY box! I love ya!
Blessings,
Heather
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
Convction
To be the hands and feet of Jesus has convicted my heart. The Lord uses ways that He knows will speak volumes to us when He wants to reach us the most. With me, it is through the eyes of my 5 year old little boy, Evan.
I know without a shadow of a doubt that God has big things in store for my Evan. I can tell by the way he cares for others, wants to serve others and by the heavy heart that he has for others to know Jesus. Just this past weekend, Evan and I were in the car and he began asking me questions about Heaven and Hell. This is not an uncommon territory for us to tread, as Evan often has questions about what the Bible has to say. We talk openly and freely about Jesus and about the sacrifice that He paid so that we would not have to. This time, his questions were specific about others and how THEY would come to know Jesus.
His heart is troubled for "children whose parents don't make sure they know about him", and for "those people who live in other lands who never hear about Him (Jesus)". These were the exact words spoken from my little guy. He questioned how if they never hear the Word how will they enter the gates of Heaven.
The Lord totally took control and led the conversation as only He could. The Lord created us, as followers of Christ, to share the good news with all that we encounter. For Evan, that may very well be those children whose parents are not raising them in church. It is our responsibility to be an example through our actions and our testimony through words to present the Gospel in such a way that a seed is planted. We are to care for others and love them the very way the Jesus loves. We are to forgive them in the same manner.
So, to be the hands and feet of Jesus is my cry. My heart's desire is to grow the Kingdom of the Lord and share His goodness with others. He is the King of my heart and I am so thankful that He has planted the desire in Evan's heart to reach others. I am hopeful that his daddy and I will be the examples before him so that he will know what is pleasing to the Lord. I pray that he will see us being the hands and feet so that that desire will continue to grow and he will better understand, as he matures, how to minister to others.
"For even the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many." Mark 10:45
"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me a drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed in me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you came to visit me, I was in prison and you came to me, then the righteous man answered, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you a drink? When did we see you a stranger and welcome you? See you naked and clothe you? And when we see you sick or in prison and visit you?' The Lord replied, 'Truly I say to you, whenever you did these things for the least of my brothers and sisters, you did for me." Matthew 25:35-40.
Blessings,
Heather
I know without a shadow of a doubt that God has big things in store for my Evan. I can tell by the way he cares for others, wants to serve others and by the heavy heart that he has for others to know Jesus. Just this past weekend, Evan and I were in the car and he began asking me questions about Heaven and Hell. This is not an uncommon territory for us to tread, as Evan often has questions about what the Bible has to say. We talk openly and freely about Jesus and about the sacrifice that He paid so that we would not have to. This time, his questions were specific about others and how THEY would come to know Jesus.
His heart is troubled for "children whose parents don't make sure they know about him", and for "those people who live in other lands who never hear about Him (Jesus)". These were the exact words spoken from my little guy. He questioned how if they never hear the Word how will they enter the gates of Heaven.
The Lord totally took control and led the conversation as only He could. The Lord created us, as followers of Christ, to share the good news with all that we encounter. For Evan, that may very well be those children whose parents are not raising them in church. It is our responsibility to be an example through our actions and our testimony through words to present the Gospel in such a way that a seed is planted. We are to care for others and love them the very way the Jesus loves. We are to forgive them in the same manner.
So, to be the hands and feet of Jesus is my cry. My heart's desire is to grow the Kingdom of the Lord and share His goodness with others. He is the King of my heart and I am so thankful that He has planted the desire in Evan's heart to reach others. I am hopeful that his daddy and I will be the examples before him so that he will know what is pleasing to the Lord. I pray that he will see us being the hands and feet so that that desire will continue to grow and he will better understand, as he matures, how to minister to others.
"For even the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many." Mark 10:45
"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me a drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed in me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you came to visit me, I was in prison and you came to me, then the righteous man answered, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you a drink? When did we see you a stranger and welcome you? See you naked and clothe you? And when we see you sick or in prison and visit you?' The Lord replied, 'Truly I say to you, whenever you did these things for the least of my brothers and sisters, you did for me." Matthew 25:35-40.
Blessings,
Heather
Friday, June 27, 2014
Smother'em With Jesus!
This phrase came about this week as a friend of mine and I were talking about our responsibilities as Christians. This has become (is becoming) my life's motto! I am making a conscious decision to completely smother others with the love of Jesus!
Smother: (One of Webster's definitions is) to cover thickly.
I am seeing a trend, time and time again, how we "smother" our minds with thoughts that cloud our judgement. A few examples include (but are not limited to) our self-image, our image of others, our duties/responsibilities, our extra-curricular activities, our add-ons (I will define in a sec), money (or lack of) and time. As adults, we take on so much that the basics seem to be sent to the back burner and lost. We tend to forget that all we really need is Jesus. Sounds simple enough, right?!
Now, I am a mother, a wife, a full-time employee and a business owner, so I totally get feeling overwhelmed and like you are never gaining traction. There are days (like yesterday) where I just can't seem to get it together. On days like these, I am reminded that all that really matters is that I am where I need to be and that I am serving the Lord with my whole heart. He will take care of the rest. With this said, how in the world do I think I am gonna have time to smother others when some days it feels like I am literally smothering myself?!
Let's take the points mentioned above and break them down one by one. After all, that is how you eat an elephant...one bite at a time!
1. Self-image thoughts: These may be negative or positive. If you have positive self-image thoughts, kudos to you. I bet I am safe in saying that you are in the minority. Every person I have encountered, male or female, has always been able to find something about themselves that they don't particularly like. At times, we can become so bogged down that these thoughts consume everything that we are and take over. Leaving no room for us to serve others. We must remember that we are the way that God created us to be. Now sure, I have a few extra pounds here and there that I feel confident He would be ok with me losing, but over all, I am the Heather that He had planned. "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." Psalm 139:13 "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30
2. Image of others: As women, I think that we struggle with this a little more than men. We look around and we see other women who may be smaller or taller than we, they may have curly hair while ours is straight (or vice versa), they may have tan skin while we are more fair or they may have the eye color that we have always dreamed of. Basically, we tend to be envious of others, instead of relishing in the fact that God made us beautiful, each and every one! Our differences make us unique and we must remember that we are special! There is not another just like me (my husband is probably thinking, amen-sister!). "But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him.' For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7
Another aspect pertaining to the image of others that we struggle with is judging their hearts/intentions. No one knows another person's heart except for them and the Lord. It is not our place to decide what their "motives" may or may not be. We have to trust that they are pure. Sure, people will disappoint by their actions and attitudes, but that is something that we must be willing to move on from. We are sinful by nature. Thankfully, God does not hold a grudge against me for all of the times I have disappointed Him (and let me tell you, there have been more times than I care to admit). This takes practice, especially if you have been hurt before (and most certainly if by the person you are trying to move past this (forgive) with). It will not come easily and will take a lot of prayer. You can not do this alone, but now comes your opportunity to "smother them with the love of Jesus." Love as He would love. Forgive as He would (has) forgive(n). "Let your light so shine before others so that they will see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:16
3. Our duties/responsibilities: Think about it. From the time our eyes pop open until we lay to sleep at night, there are so many "things" that we are responsible for. Taking care of the children, feeding them, bathing them, gathering their things for the next day, preparing ourselves for the day ahead, work, cleaning, cooking, house upkeep, relationship coddling (spouse, family and friends), grocery shopping, then trying to clear our minds just to do it all over again the next day. I am worn out just typing it all. There are some days that I don't think that my mind rests even when my body tries. If we allow our responsibilities to become so complex that they are all we can focus on, we miss out on the blessings that God has in store for us. I understand there are things that must be taken care of, we can not neglect our children and spouses, they must eat...but, we must try to be mindful that our thoughts should focus around the things that please the Lord. When we are able to let our guard down, find time to love on others and share Him, all the other "things" will fall into place (I hear this is true...I am gonna have to give it a try! lol). Bring it all back to the things that are necessary. De-clutter your mind and focus on Him. "And the world is passing away and all of its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever." 1 John 2:17
4. Our extra-curricular activities: I like to say that "I am too busy (with my family, scripture studies, etc,) to have extra-curricular activities", but that simply is not true. I make time for these. Whether it be my photography (my part time business), taking a walk, hanging out with girlfriends (which does not happen as much as it maybe should), baking, or anything else that consumes my time or energy outside of the Lord and my family (or providing for). Are my thoughts centered on how I can bless others through these extra-curricular activities or are they (these activities) so consuming that my mind is clouded by the busyness? Does all of this extra busyness cause us to be anxious? We must make conscious efforts to make sure that our minds are clear from distractions so that our focus remains on the One who really matters. When we learn to focus on Him and His blessings for us, we then can bless others. "Be still and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10 "Do not conform to the ways of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-His good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2 *Now you may be thinking that you have never thought about this particular verse pertaining to our busyness, but can you see how it does? When we are so busy with all of our "stuff", we are conforming to the way the world says we should be. Not taking it back to the basics and just focusing on the Lord. Please don't get me wrong. I am not saying that I think I will ever be without all of my "extras" but, I do hope that I am able to not be so busy so that I can focus on the love that the Lord has for me and His goodness and in return, I am able to pass that along.
5. Our add-ons: This one gets me Every. Single. Time!! These are the things that we just pile on ourselves, sometimes without even realizing that we are doing it. For me, it is staying up to bake that 2 dozen cupcakes for my son's class the next morning that MUST be decorated like an octopus (don't get me wrong, they sure were cute, but my the time), deciding to take part in a book club that you really don't have the time to do, but feel like you need to be "one of the gang", on a day where you have doctors appointments, meetings and other errands, you sign up to work a consignment sale (double shift) so that you can shop early!! I am sure the list could go on and on! What is wrong with us, ladies?! We take on more than we can handle and we do it to ourselves. Are we doing these things so that we are "keeping up with the Joneses?" Where in all of this have we glorified the Lord or been a blessing to someone else? If you are like me, on the days when I have stretched myself to the max, I don't even like myself, so I am sure those around me wish I was somewhere else. De-clutter and simplify, get back to the basics (have I said that a time or two in this post already) and focus on Jesus. Allow Him to direct your paths, steer your comings and goings and boy how you (we) will be blessed. I wish I had followed this advice about 9 years ago when I completed college and was preparing to enter "adulthood." My oh my, outlooks may be different. "Whatever you do, work heartily as for the Lord, not for men."Colossians 3:23
6. Money: It has been said that the Bible states that money is the root of all evil. Well, that is not true. The Bible states that "the love of money is the root of all evil" (1 Timothy 6:10). Money is necessary if you are going to take care of your basic needs (food, shelter, clothing). You simply can not pay your bills without it. Where it gets us into trouble is where we allow our love or even our so-called need (like my need for a new pair of shoes) for money comes into play. We can become so consumed with earning the all mighty dollar that we forget that we should be using our monetary gifts to further the kingdom of God. It's not even ours, after all- it is His! Our first responsibility is to give back to the Lord a portion of what He has given to us. (*The Old Testament refers to us giving a tithe of 10%, the New Testament does not specifically give an amount, but this does not mean less than 10%, but maybe more. We should give as we have been given and what is on our hearts.) Are we using our money to bring glory to the Lord? Are we blessing others (donations, gifts to meet needs) from our gifts? I struggle with wanting. I always seem to want more than I have (ex: a bigger house, a vacation home, eat out at the best restaurants, more clothes, more clothes for my kids--just to name a few; I mean, I am being totally honest here!). I think that it is human nature, but we should strive for contentment. I think when our minds are not focused on the so-called need of money, then we are able to relish in the goodness of what He has provided for us. The Lord gives us what He knows that we need (and as Dave Ramsey says, what we can monetarily handle). Try not to love it (money) so much, but see it as a necessity and only use it as that. Give to those less fortunate that we and use it for the good. The Lord will always make sure that your needs are met. He will give to those who give. Give back to Him, even when it seems like you may not be able to pay that bill at the end of the month--He will provide! Don't allow your mind to be clouded with the evilness that comes with the love of money. Be content, give back (tithe) and bless others. "Offer right sacrifices and put your trust in the Lord. " Psalm 4:5, "In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way that we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how He himself said, 'It is truly better to give than to receive.'" Acts 20:35, "But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and these things shall be added to you." Matthew 6:33, "No one can serve two masters, for he will either hate one and love the other or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money." Matthew 6:24 "Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He himself has said, 'I will never leave you or forsake you.'" Hebrews 13:5
7. Time: This is the one thing I sometimes feel like I NEVER have enough of, when the truth is, we are all given the same 24 hours in a day. It is just up to us (individually) in how we choose to spend it. Time is the greatest gift that you can give to another. It is precious to you. It is something that you can never get back once it is gone. I challenge you to spend more time doing the following over the weekend: 1. Read your Bible. Submerge yourself in the Word and see how you feel afterwards. 2. Pray that the Lord would reveal an opportunity of service for you. Ask him with your whole heart where He would have you serve--then commit to doing it. You may not get your answer this weekend, it may take weeks and weeks of searching and listening, truly listening to Him. 3. Turn off the television and do something that your kids want to do. Let your hair down! Paint with pudding for goodness sake!! Invest in your children! It will be treasured (by you both)! 4. Have a conversation with your spouse. No television, no children interrupting, no phone calls. Take 30 minutes and talk to your spouse! Get to know them again! 5. Bless someone else with a kind word or an action. SMOTHER'EM WITH JESUS! "For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many." Mark 10:45
This post has been so heavy on my heart as I strive to smother others with the love of Jesus. I can see the changes He is making in me and I am encouraged by what I know (or rather what I am gonna see that) the future holds. Help us, O Lord, to see others with your eyes, help us to be vulnerable and available to do what you have called us to do! Help us to be more like you each and every day!
Blessings,
Heather
Smother: (One of Webster's definitions is) to cover thickly.
I am seeing a trend, time and time again, how we "smother" our minds with thoughts that cloud our judgement. A few examples include (but are not limited to) our self-image, our image of others, our duties/responsibilities, our extra-curricular activities, our add-ons (I will define in a sec), money (or lack of) and time. As adults, we take on so much that the basics seem to be sent to the back burner and lost. We tend to forget that all we really need is Jesus. Sounds simple enough, right?!
Now, I am a mother, a wife, a full-time employee and a business owner, so I totally get feeling overwhelmed and like you are never gaining traction. There are days (like yesterday) where I just can't seem to get it together. On days like these, I am reminded that all that really matters is that I am where I need to be and that I am serving the Lord with my whole heart. He will take care of the rest. With this said, how in the world do I think I am gonna have time to smother others when some days it feels like I am literally smothering myself?!
Let's take the points mentioned above and break them down one by one. After all, that is how you eat an elephant...one bite at a time!
1. Self-image thoughts: These may be negative or positive. If you have positive self-image thoughts, kudos to you. I bet I am safe in saying that you are in the minority. Every person I have encountered, male or female, has always been able to find something about themselves that they don't particularly like. At times, we can become so bogged down that these thoughts consume everything that we are and take over. Leaving no room for us to serve others. We must remember that we are the way that God created us to be. Now sure, I have a few extra pounds here and there that I feel confident He would be ok with me losing, but over all, I am the Heather that He had planned. "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." Psalm 139:13 "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30
2. Image of others: As women, I think that we struggle with this a little more than men. We look around and we see other women who may be smaller or taller than we, they may have curly hair while ours is straight (or vice versa), they may have tan skin while we are more fair or they may have the eye color that we have always dreamed of. Basically, we tend to be envious of others, instead of relishing in the fact that God made us beautiful, each and every one! Our differences make us unique and we must remember that we are special! There is not another just like me (my husband is probably thinking, amen-sister!). "But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him.' For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7
Another aspect pertaining to the image of others that we struggle with is judging their hearts/intentions. No one knows another person's heart except for them and the Lord. It is not our place to decide what their "motives" may or may not be. We have to trust that they are pure. Sure, people will disappoint by their actions and attitudes, but that is something that we must be willing to move on from. We are sinful by nature. Thankfully, God does not hold a grudge against me for all of the times I have disappointed Him (and let me tell you, there have been more times than I care to admit). This takes practice, especially if you have been hurt before (and most certainly if by the person you are trying to move past this (forgive) with). It will not come easily and will take a lot of prayer. You can not do this alone, but now comes your opportunity to "smother them with the love of Jesus." Love as He would love. Forgive as He would (has) forgive(n). "Let your light so shine before others so that they will see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:16
3. Our duties/responsibilities: Think about it. From the time our eyes pop open until we lay to sleep at night, there are so many "things" that we are responsible for. Taking care of the children, feeding them, bathing them, gathering their things for the next day, preparing ourselves for the day ahead, work, cleaning, cooking, house upkeep, relationship coddling (spouse, family and friends), grocery shopping, then trying to clear our minds just to do it all over again the next day. I am worn out just typing it all. There are some days that I don't think that my mind rests even when my body tries. If we allow our responsibilities to become so complex that they are all we can focus on, we miss out on the blessings that God has in store for us. I understand there are things that must be taken care of, we can not neglect our children and spouses, they must eat...but, we must try to be mindful that our thoughts should focus around the things that please the Lord. When we are able to let our guard down, find time to love on others and share Him, all the other "things" will fall into place (I hear this is true...I am gonna have to give it a try! lol). Bring it all back to the things that are necessary. De-clutter your mind and focus on Him. "And the world is passing away and all of its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever." 1 John 2:17
4. Our extra-curricular activities: I like to say that "I am too busy (with my family, scripture studies, etc,) to have extra-curricular activities", but that simply is not true. I make time for these. Whether it be my photography (my part time business), taking a walk, hanging out with girlfriends (which does not happen as much as it maybe should), baking, or anything else that consumes my time or energy outside of the Lord and my family (or providing for). Are my thoughts centered on how I can bless others through these extra-curricular activities or are they (these activities) so consuming that my mind is clouded by the busyness? Does all of this extra busyness cause us to be anxious? We must make conscious efforts to make sure that our minds are clear from distractions so that our focus remains on the One who really matters. When we learn to focus on Him and His blessings for us, we then can bless others. "Be still and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10 "Do not conform to the ways of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-His good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2 *Now you may be thinking that you have never thought about this particular verse pertaining to our busyness, but can you see how it does? When we are so busy with all of our "stuff", we are conforming to the way the world says we should be. Not taking it back to the basics and just focusing on the Lord. Please don't get me wrong. I am not saying that I think I will ever be without all of my "extras" but, I do hope that I am able to not be so busy so that I can focus on the love that the Lord has for me and His goodness and in return, I am able to pass that along.
5. Our add-ons: This one gets me Every. Single. Time!! These are the things that we just pile on ourselves, sometimes without even realizing that we are doing it. For me, it is staying up to bake that 2 dozen cupcakes for my son's class the next morning that MUST be decorated like an octopus (don't get me wrong, they sure were cute, but my the time), deciding to take part in a book club that you really don't have the time to do, but feel like you need to be "one of the gang", on a day where you have doctors appointments, meetings and other errands, you sign up to work a consignment sale (double shift) so that you can shop early!! I am sure the list could go on and on! What is wrong with us, ladies?! We take on more than we can handle and we do it to ourselves. Are we doing these things so that we are "keeping up with the Joneses?" Where in all of this have we glorified the Lord or been a blessing to someone else? If you are like me, on the days when I have stretched myself to the max, I don't even like myself, so I am sure those around me wish I was somewhere else. De-clutter and simplify, get back to the basics (have I said that a time or two in this post already) and focus on Jesus. Allow Him to direct your paths, steer your comings and goings and boy how you (we) will be blessed. I wish I had followed this advice about 9 years ago when I completed college and was preparing to enter "adulthood." My oh my, outlooks may be different. "Whatever you do, work heartily as for the Lord, not for men."Colossians 3:23
6. Money: It has been said that the Bible states that money is the root of all evil. Well, that is not true. The Bible states that "the love of money is the root of all evil" (1 Timothy 6:10). Money is necessary if you are going to take care of your basic needs (food, shelter, clothing). You simply can not pay your bills without it. Where it gets us into trouble is where we allow our love or even our so-called need (like my need for a new pair of shoes) for money comes into play. We can become so consumed with earning the all mighty dollar that we forget that we should be using our monetary gifts to further the kingdom of God. It's not even ours, after all- it is His! Our first responsibility is to give back to the Lord a portion of what He has given to us. (*The Old Testament refers to us giving a tithe of 10%, the New Testament does not specifically give an amount, but this does not mean less than 10%, but maybe more. We should give as we have been given and what is on our hearts.) Are we using our money to bring glory to the Lord? Are we blessing others (donations, gifts to meet needs) from our gifts? I struggle with wanting. I always seem to want more than I have (ex: a bigger house, a vacation home, eat out at the best restaurants, more clothes, more clothes for my kids--just to name a few; I mean, I am being totally honest here!). I think that it is human nature, but we should strive for contentment. I think when our minds are not focused on the so-called need of money, then we are able to relish in the goodness of what He has provided for us. The Lord gives us what He knows that we need (and as Dave Ramsey says, what we can monetarily handle). Try not to love it (money) so much, but see it as a necessity and only use it as that. Give to those less fortunate that we and use it for the good. The Lord will always make sure that your needs are met. He will give to those who give. Give back to Him, even when it seems like you may not be able to pay that bill at the end of the month--He will provide! Don't allow your mind to be clouded with the evilness that comes with the love of money. Be content, give back (tithe) and bless others. "Offer right sacrifices and put your trust in the Lord. " Psalm 4:5, "In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way that we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how He himself said, 'It is truly better to give than to receive.'" Acts 20:35, "But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and these things shall be added to you." Matthew 6:33, "No one can serve two masters, for he will either hate one and love the other or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money." Matthew 6:24 "Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He himself has said, 'I will never leave you or forsake you.'" Hebrews 13:5
7. Time: This is the one thing I sometimes feel like I NEVER have enough of, when the truth is, we are all given the same 24 hours in a day. It is just up to us (individually) in how we choose to spend it. Time is the greatest gift that you can give to another. It is precious to you. It is something that you can never get back once it is gone. I challenge you to spend more time doing the following over the weekend: 1. Read your Bible. Submerge yourself in the Word and see how you feel afterwards. 2. Pray that the Lord would reveal an opportunity of service for you. Ask him with your whole heart where He would have you serve--then commit to doing it. You may not get your answer this weekend, it may take weeks and weeks of searching and listening, truly listening to Him. 3. Turn off the television and do something that your kids want to do. Let your hair down! Paint with pudding for goodness sake!! Invest in your children! It will be treasured (by you both)! 4. Have a conversation with your spouse. No television, no children interrupting, no phone calls. Take 30 minutes and talk to your spouse! Get to know them again! 5. Bless someone else with a kind word or an action. SMOTHER'EM WITH JESUS! "For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many." Mark 10:45
This post has been so heavy on my heart as I strive to smother others with the love of Jesus. I can see the changes He is making in me and I am encouraged by what I know (or rather what I am gonna see that) the future holds. Help us, O Lord, to see others with your eyes, help us to be vulnerable and available to do what you have called us to do! Help us to be more like you each and every day!
Blessings,
Heather
Thursday, June 12, 2014
I Am More Than...
What is it about the way we look to others, ladies? To ourselves? As I am beginning to age (and let me add not nearly as gracefully as I may have liked or wished), I am noticing more and more things about myself that I just don't find pleasing. There are wrinkles and age spots that I never thought I would see. There are those unsightly grey hairs (yes, they are there...you just can't see them because I have an AWESOME stylist). I have skin that sags in places that just makes me sad and I noticed this week that my hands are beginning to look, dare I say the word, OLD!
But, praise the Lord(!) there is more to me than what meets the eye. I am more than just an (cough, cough) average sized woman. Beneath this skin is a heart who loves the Lord and truly does strive to live for Christ every day (even though I fail terribly sometimes). My heart longs to help those in need and be more than just a handout to them, but to be a friend.
My family is my world. Without them, their love and support, I do not know where in the world I would be. My heart's desire is to be a wife that is pleasing to Jesus and to James. One that follows the guidelines set before me, to allow my husband to be the head of our home (as hard as that is sometimes), one that loves with all that I am and is vulnerable and sensitive to his needs. One who supports, cares for and one he trusts with all that he is. I long to be the best mommy to Evan and Emie (and Pete, our dog) that I possibly can be. To trust the Lord to guide me in the way that he would have me guide them to be Christ loving individuals, ones to grow and love Him and allow Him to use them in the way He sees fit. I pray that I will always support my children and their decisions (even if we don't agree--like when they decide to move away from home). I hope that they can always feel my love for them and know that they can always count on me. For my parents I want to be the daughter that they know they can depend on to help when the time comes and roles need to be reversed. That I WILL be there, even though I may live miles away. I want to be there to laugh with them when times are good and be a shoulder to lean on when they turn tough. After all, they have always done those things for me! At this stage in our relationship, for my brother and sister-in-law, I hope to be a support system, a cheerleader if you will! One they know they can count on to ALWAYS be in their corner rooting for them! One they know prays for them without ceasing and one who really does love with all that I am. When the day comes for additions to the family, I hope I am one that can be looked to for Godly advice and counsel when raising (or just just trying to survive that first year) their sweet babies. No matter the miles between us, I truly am only a phone call (or in this day and age, a text) away. For my Nanny, my heart longs to be there to spend long hours with, just talking with and soaking every moment. I don't get to do that as often as I wish, but I hope that she knows that's where I want to be. I long to be able to cook like she does (or used to...lol). I hope to have the openness to accept the responsibility of caring for others the way that she has. For my extended family whom I love so much, my prayer is that I am always the one they know they can count on. The one they can call when they need someone to pray or just need someone to listen. I love the hugs and kisses that I receive from them and I treasure each moment that is granted. To my in-laws, I pray that I am a blessing to their lives as they are to mine. I pray that they know that no matter the differences that we may have, there are two common threads between us, the love that we have for Jesus and the love that we share for James.
My dear sweet friends and their laughter help make this crazy world go round! If we are friends, from either way back or have just come to know one another, I hope you have come to realize that if you need me, in the word's of Michelle Tanner (from Full House), "You Got It Babe!" :) The Lord has revealed to me through various times in my life that sometimes you just need a friend! He places people in our lives, some for long periods of time and some for short, to share good times and bad. They help provide insight and lend views that we may have never thought of on our own. Friends are vital to sustaining this thing we call "life". Thank you for allowing me to be part of your lives, for blessing mine in such a way that words can't describe. Thank you for loving my family as your own. I pray that I show you just how special you are! "You is smart, you is kind, you is important!"
My heart is full of love, hopes and dreams! I am sure that if you were to search your own you would find that yours too is full. Each and every one of us holds something close that motivates us to get up each and every day. To put our feet on the floor. To put one foot in front of the other. Simply to breathe. What is it that motivates you? Is it your love for others? Is it your desire to be more faithful to God? Is it to be the husband, wife, friend that HE has called you to be? If this seems too muggy to discern, ask for guidance. He will show you. But I must give you warning...you ready? You must be ready to listen! Listen with ALL of your heart! Embrace what He wants to show you with ALL of your heart!
When the revelation is clear, there may be changes that need to be made. I don't know. Are you ready to make the needed changes? For me, a deeper quality, quiet time with Him needs to be improved upon. My time with Him is so valuable. There are so many lessons He wants to share with me. It's up to me to make that a priority. He is ready and waiting.
Are you ready to meet Him? He is. He is waiting for you!!
Verses to think about:
"For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." Philippians 1:6
"Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path." Proverbs 3:5-6
"Have I not commanded you? Be STRONG and COURAGEOUS! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord God is with you wherever you may go." Joshua 1:9
Blessings,
Heather
But, praise the Lord(!) there is more to me than what meets the eye. I am more than just an (cough, cough) average sized woman. Beneath this skin is a heart who loves the Lord and truly does strive to live for Christ every day (even though I fail terribly sometimes). My heart longs to help those in need and be more than just a handout to them, but to be a friend.
My family is my world. Without them, their love and support, I do not know where in the world I would be. My heart's desire is to be a wife that is pleasing to Jesus and to James. One that follows the guidelines set before me, to allow my husband to be the head of our home (as hard as that is sometimes), one that loves with all that I am and is vulnerable and sensitive to his needs. One who supports, cares for and one he trusts with all that he is. I long to be the best mommy to Evan and Emie (and Pete, our dog) that I possibly can be. To trust the Lord to guide me in the way that he would have me guide them to be Christ loving individuals, ones to grow and love Him and allow Him to use them in the way He sees fit. I pray that I will always support my children and their decisions (even if we don't agree--like when they decide to move away from home). I hope that they can always feel my love for them and know that they can always count on me. For my parents I want to be the daughter that they know they can depend on to help when the time comes and roles need to be reversed. That I WILL be there, even though I may live miles away. I want to be there to laugh with them when times are good and be a shoulder to lean on when they turn tough. After all, they have always done those things for me! At this stage in our relationship, for my brother and sister-in-law, I hope to be a support system, a cheerleader if you will! One they know they can count on to ALWAYS be in their corner rooting for them! One they know prays for them without ceasing and one who really does love with all that I am. When the day comes for additions to the family, I hope I am one that can be looked to for Godly advice and counsel when raising (or just just trying to survive that first year) their sweet babies. No matter the miles between us, I truly am only a phone call (or in this day and age, a text) away. For my Nanny, my heart longs to be there to spend long hours with, just talking with and soaking every moment. I don't get to do that as often as I wish, but I hope that she knows that's where I want to be. I long to be able to cook like she does (or used to...lol). I hope to have the openness to accept the responsibility of caring for others the way that she has. For my extended family whom I love so much, my prayer is that I am always the one they know they can count on. The one they can call when they need someone to pray or just need someone to listen. I love the hugs and kisses that I receive from them and I treasure each moment that is granted. To my in-laws, I pray that I am a blessing to their lives as they are to mine. I pray that they know that no matter the differences that we may have, there are two common threads between us, the love that we have for Jesus and the love that we share for James.
My dear sweet friends and their laughter help make this crazy world go round! If we are friends, from either way back or have just come to know one another, I hope you have come to realize that if you need me, in the word's of Michelle Tanner (from Full House), "You Got It Babe!" :) The Lord has revealed to me through various times in my life that sometimes you just need a friend! He places people in our lives, some for long periods of time and some for short, to share good times and bad. They help provide insight and lend views that we may have never thought of on our own. Friends are vital to sustaining this thing we call "life". Thank you for allowing me to be part of your lives, for blessing mine in such a way that words can't describe. Thank you for loving my family as your own. I pray that I show you just how special you are! "You is smart, you is kind, you is important!"
My heart is full of love, hopes and dreams! I am sure that if you were to search your own you would find that yours too is full. Each and every one of us holds something close that motivates us to get up each and every day. To put our feet on the floor. To put one foot in front of the other. Simply to breathe. What is it that motivates you? Is it your love for others? Is it your desire to be more faithful to God? Is it to be the husband, wife, friend that HE has called you to be? If this seems too muggy to discern, ask for guidance. He will show you. But I must give you warning...you ready? You must be ready to listen! Listen with ALL of your heart! Embrace what He wants to show you with ALL of your heart!
When the revelation is clear, there may be changes that need to be made. I don't know. Are you ready to make the needed changes? For me, a deeper quality, quiet time with Him needs to be improved upon. My time with Him is so valuable. There are so many lessons He wants to share with me. It's up to me to make that a priority. He is ready and waiting.
Are you ready to meet Him? He is. He is waiting for you!!
Verses to think about:
"For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." Philippians 1:6
"Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path." Proverbs 3:5-6
"Have I not commanded you? Be STRONG and COURAGEOUS! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord God is with you wherever you may go." Joshua 1:9
Blessings,
Heather
Monday, June 9, 2014
Here We Go...
Am I really doing this? Yes, Yes I am!!
Let me introduce myself. My name is Heather and writing is my therapy. My husband James and I have two children, Evan (5) and Emie (7 mo) and one fur baby, Pete (almost 9 years). James and I have been married for 9 years (in August) but have been together for 11. I have two B.S. degrees in Human Development and Family Studies; one with a concentration in Child Life and the other in Early Childhood Development. I absolutely LOVE to serve the Lord and others. I feel so blessed with the life that God has chosen for me and am excited for what the future holds. I have a dream to write a devotional book, but until that book becomes a reality, I am leaning on the arms of this new blog--that's how we got here. With all of this said, let's begin 'His Something Beautiful!'
Children are truly something special! Wouldn't you agree? I have always loved working with children, so when it came to choosing a career path, I knew it would involve little tots in some way. The Lord has blessed us with two beautiful (I am a little biased) little ones. Evan is the oldest. He is pretty laid back and goes with the flow. He is a leader and very much a rule follower (he gets that from me). He is a perfectionist and very loving. He gives the best hugs and kisses around. He loves people and he loves to have a good time! Evan is a thinker. A deep thinker for a 5 year old. His heart is concerned over matters that most children don't really ponder. I joke and say that he will either be a preacher or a politician one day! I can't wait to see where the Lord leads him...I know he has great things in store for this little one! He worries over his friends and family knowing and having a relationship with Jesus. He thinks about people being honest. He thinks about and asks questions on heaven and hell. WHAT? Hell? My 5 year old knows about hell and asks questions about it? Yes, yes he does.
Let me tell you about a conversation I overheard him having with his daddy just the other afternoon.
I was in the kitchen preparing supper and in walks the other three members of our household. I could hear Evan talking (which is so typical for him...he wakes talking and does not stop until those eyes are closed--he gets that from me, too...lol) to James, asking A LOT of questions. This is how it went:
Evan: "So daddy, does Satan ever defeat Jesus?"
James: "No, Evan, he never does."
Evan: "Does he try?"
James: "Yes, he tries, he tries every day, but we know that he never will."
Evan: "How do we know for sure?"
James: "Well, the Bible tells us. See, we can read and know how it all is gonna end and we know that Jesus will ALWAYS come out on top."
Evan: "Huh. Ok."
He then saw me and moved on to playing in his room. Later that night, he and I were watching tv and during a commercial I asked him what he and daddy were talking about. He told me that they were talking about "if Satan ever defeats Jesus." I commented with, "Oh!, Well, what did daddy say?" His response was simple. "The Bible tells us that he will never beat Jesus, Mommy." He then went on to tell me about Jesus coming back to get our bodies and how it will just be our bodies because we will already be in heaven. We then went on to talk about how we get to heaven and his sweet response, "Well, if you love Jesus, of course!" We talked about asking Jesus to live in our hearts and as honest and as pure as he could, he lifted his arms towards heaven and said these words, "Jesus, come live in my heart!" With a big smile on his face, he looked at me and said, "I am going to heaven!"
In that moment I shook my head with a grin on my face and had to chuckle. This was truly an "Evan moment." He is so charismatic and theatrical. This will be a story I will tell again and again as he becomes a Christian, as he grows into an adult, when he finds his true love and one I am sure I will tell his babies! As I have had time to reflect over this conversation and his response over this past week, one word stands out to me. DEFEAT. Defeat. This is such a strong word for such a little guy to pull out of his back pocket. One that a lot of adults don't get. One that my Jesus, thank goodness, paid a price for so that I don't have to feel.
It gives me a sense of comfort to know that my Jesus will never be defeated by the one who seeks to destroy Him. It gives me a sense of hope to know that because of the price that He paid for my sin, that I will live eternally with Him one day. It gives me a sense of responsibility to share His love with others.
Our Sunday school lesson this past week asked the question that if something happened and our church no longer existed would our community miss us (the church)? I am going to take this one step further. If something were to happen to me and I went to be with my heavenly father, would my community miss me? Am I making a difference within my community? My church? My home? Am I serving so that others see Jesus? Am I building the kingdom of God?
I challenge you to examine your life. Are you making a difference where you are? Allow God to show you areas where you need to improve and grow. Take comfort in knowing that He is not defeated! He always comes out on top!!
I am not really sure how many readers or followers this blog may have, but I do know that it will be pure therapy for me. I know that the Lord laid it on my heart to start it, so here we are. I pray that something you read will bless your heart and be of an encouragement to you. I am just a woman. Just a wife, mommy, daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend, but I sure do love Jesus and pray every day that His light will shine through me. I pray that you will be blessed and that you will be a blessing!
Words of Comfort:
You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you,
than he that is in the world. 1 John 4:4
I am He that lives, and was dead; and, behold, I am alive for evermore, Amen; and have the
keys of hell and of death. Revelation 1:18
They overcame him by the Blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony... Revelation 12:11
Blessings,
Heather
Let me introduce myself. My name is Heather and writing is my therapy. My husband James and I have two children, Evan (5) and Emie (7 mo) and one fur baby, Pete (almost 9 years). James and I have been married for 9 years (in August) but have been together for 11. I have two B.S. degrees in Human Development and Family Studies; one with a concentration in Child Life and the other in Early Childhood Development. I absolutely LOVE to serve the Lord and others. I feel so blessed with the life that God has chosen for me and am excited for what the future holds. I have a dream to write a devotional book, but until that book becomes a reality, I am leaning on the arms of this new blog--that's how we got here. With all of this said, let's begin 'His Something Beautiful!'
Children are truly something special! Wouldn't you agree? I have always loved working with children, so when it came to choosing a career path, I knew it would involve little tots in some way. The Lord has blessed us with two beautiful (I am a little biased) little ones. Evan is the oldest. He is pretty laid back and goes with the flow. He is a leader and very much a rule follower (he gets that from me). He is a perfectionist and very loving. He gives the best hugs and kisses around. He loves people and he loves to have a good time! Evan is a thinker. A deep thinker for a 5 year old. His heart is concerned over matters that most children don't really ponder. I joke and say that he will either be a preacher or a politician one day! I can't wait to see where the Lord leads him...I know he has great things in store for this little one! He worries over his friends and family knowing and having a relationship with Jesus. He thinks about people being honest. He thinks about and asks questions on heaven and hell. WHAT? Hell? My 5 year old knows about hell and asks questions about it? Yes, yes he does.
Let me tell you about a conversation I overheard him having with his daddy just the other afternoon.
I was in the kitchen preparing supper and in walks the other three members of our household. I could hear Evan talking (which is so typical for him...he wakes talking and does not stop until those eyes are closed--he gets that from me, too...lol) to James, asking A LOT of questions. This is how it went:
Evan: "So daddy, does Satan ever defeat Jesus?"
James: "No, Evan, he never does."
Evan: "Does he try?"
James: "Yes, he tries, he tries every day, but we know that he never will."
Evan: "How do we know for sure?"
James: "Well, the Bible tells us. See, we can read and know how it all is gonna end and we know that Jesus will ALWAYS come out on top."
Evan: "Huh. Ok."
He then saw me and moved on to playing in his room. Later that night, he and I were watching tv and during a commercial I asked him what he and daddy were talking about. He told me that they were talking about "if Satan ever defeats Jesus." I commented with, "Oh!, Well, what did daddy say?" His response was simple. "The Bible tells us that he will never beat Jesus, Mommy." He then went on to tell me about Jesus coming back to get our bodies and how it will just be our bodies because we will already be in heaven. We then went on to talk about how we get to heaven and his sweet response, "Well, if you love Jesus, of course!" We talked about asking Jesus to live in our hearts and as honest and as pure as he could, he lifted his arms towards heaven and said these words, "Jesus, come live in my heart!" With a big smile on his face, he looked at me and said, "I am going to heaven!"
In that moment I shook my head with a grin on my face and had to chuckle. This was truly an "Evan moment." He is so charismatic and theatrical. This will be a story I will tell again and again as he becomes a Christian, as he grows into an adult, when he finds his true love and one I am sure I will tell his babies! As I have had time to reflect over this conversation and his response over this past week, one word stands out to me. DEFEAT. Defeat. This is such a strong word for such a little guy to pull out of his back pocket. One that a lot of adults don't get. One that my Jesus, thank goodness, paid a price for so that I don't have to feel.
It gives me a sense of comfort to know that my Jesus will never be defeated by the one who seeks to destroy Him. It gives me a sense of hope to know that because of the price that He paid for my sin, that I will live eternally with Him one day. It gives me a sense of responsibility to share His love with others.
Our Sunday school lesson this past week asked the question that if something happened and our church no longer existed would our community miss us (the church)? I am going to take this one step further. If something were to happen to me and I went to be with my heavenly father, would my community miss me? Am I making a difference within my community? My church? My home? Am I serving so that others see Jesus? Am I building the kingdom of God?
I challenge you to examine your life. Are you making a difference where you are? Allow God to show you areas where you need to improve and grow. Take comfort in knowing that He is not defeated! He always comes out on top!!
I am not really sure how many readers or followers this blog may have, but I do know that it will be pure therapy for me. I know that the Lord laid it on my heart to start it, so here we are. I pray that something you read will bless your heart and be of an encouragement to you. I am just a woman. Just a wife, mommy, daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend, but I sure do love Jesus and pray every day that His light will shine through me. I pray that you will be blessed and that you will be a blessing!
Words of Comfort:
You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you,
than he that is in the world. 1 John 4:4
I am He that lives, and was dead; and, behold, I am alive for evermore, Amen; and have the
keys of hell and of death. Revelation 1:18
They overcame him by the Blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony... Revelation 12:11
Blessings,
Heather
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